I was on vacation with my family last week. It was great! We started out with a weekend celebrating our anniversary. Then, we took the kids and explored the town we've inhabited for the past five months. The museum, the Science Center, an orchard--lots of fun options. Friday morning, I was lounging with the boys and and enjoying the break from my usual Friday work routine. I realized that Mrs O was up and around doing the same things she always does. This was not unlike any other Friday for her. Well, I was home. So, she was caring for one extra boy all week! My wife needs a vacation!
I started thinking about all the things I know about Mrs O. I was thinking about things that we could do that would make it feel like a vacation for her. I know that she does not love the task of planning meals. It's an endless mental puzzle to figure out how to make something tasty for grown-ups and tolerable for kids while trying to make sure that everyone gets a balanced diet. EVERY day. THREE times per day. Seven times, really, if you count all the snacks. . . did you ever notice that pre-schoolers are kind of like Hobbits? Anyway. . .
. . . so, I decided that we should make a plan to go out to eat more on vacation.
Yes.
That really was my first thought.
Then, I realized that I could do some meal planning and grocery shopping before the vacation and make the meals. You should have seen the look on her face when I told Mrs O my plan! Imagine how she would have felt if I had thought of this before our vacation instead of the end when we only had three days left!
Like I said at the beginning, there WILL be a next time. And since I have all this time to think about it, it's going to be bigger and better than just a few meals and groceries:
Laundry. Groceries. A free day for Momma to go out. . . by herself!
It's beginning to sound like a bit of work, but I think I can do it. Afterall, this is the stuff she does week in and week out. And if it is a ton of work, and I am worn out at the end of my vacation, then I can go back to work and rest!
Note to self: Momma needs a vacation--probably more than I do!
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